Accuracy varies on house and aspects being made to the placement.
• If you want a virgo venus you have to meet all the criteria. They won’t settle because you take them on a cute picnic and buy them a teddy bears at the carnival. That stuff may be sweet and distract them. But it won’t work if you can‘t answer: What are your goals? What are you accomplishments? What are your morals? What do you bring to the table? They will not risk disrupting their peace for you. This is a serious placement, bring it all or go home.
• People will say they have high standards, their critical of their partners. But if you open your eyes, you’ll see that people judge this placement for knowing their worth. Let’s say the venus virgo person is fairly successful in their career, why would they settle for a broke person who is still unsure about their goals? They know their value, and they’ll determine yours, if it doesn’t match, it’s going to be a no for them.
• But the above is only true for a mature and positively placed virgo venus. Otherwise, they’re insecure and want a partner of value to make them feel better. However, this becomes an unfair relationship to the partner once they become aware.
• Venus virgo needs time to observe you. Therefore, the relationships take time. You may begin as friends, and it is common for this placement to have known their spouse for years before realizing it’s them they want.
For example: Blake Lively and Mika Kunis have virgo venus. They each knew their spouse for years before engaging in a romantic relationship.
Blake once explained, her and Ryan Reynolds, were friends first. When both were single, they would suggest to the other who they should go out with. It took a long time before it occurred to them maybe they should go out with each other.
Mila and Ashton were on that 70s show together. Nothing romantic ever happened as the age difference prevented them from seeing each other in that light. It wasn’t until they were older, and fwb that they decided to pursue a romantic relationship.
It may be due to how we are shown what love is that virgo venus people don’t see their true love in that light until much later. They may be shown they need the Disney-like fairytale story. But truly that is not what works for them. They need a true partnership.
• Virgo venus people don’t need the the grandest romantic gestures to be happy. They need you to be present in the partnership and tend to the daily things with them. They’ll appreciate you taking the responsibility of washing the dishes or cooking dinner rather than doing very little daily but buying them a huge bouquet of flowers every now and then.
Example: Kim K has a virgo venus. Her former husbands would all do huge grand gestures. They’d buy her the biggest ring, the biggest flowers and one Kanye got her a hologram of her deceased father speaking to her. But in daily life, they’d offer little help and support with things more important to her such as her children, businesses, etc. This often became one of the main reasons she’d decide to end the relationship. Kim may need to consider the grand gestures distract her from realizing they are doing the less than the bare minimum for her.
• Venus virgo also can struggle to fully be happy with their hobbies because they seek perfection. If in 10th house, you may see virgo venus turning their pleasures/hobbies into a business. If in 1st, this person can struggle with their image. They end up stuck always trying to find ways to prefect themselves. Seeking surgery could be a possibility. Whichever house your venus virgo is in, is where you seek perfectionism. If in the 12th, you may not be aware of your beauty and the love around you. Leading to addictions and eating disorders.
• A venus virgo look for someone who is a bit reserved. They don’t want you if you’re available to everyone. Someone appearing polite and well groomed. Possibly an academic look. So basically someone quiet and well behaved in public, but kinda freaky in private.
Let me know your experiences as a virgo venus or with a virgo venus.
“Stay afraid but do it anyway. What’s important is the action. You don’t have to wait to be confident. Just do it and eventually the confidence will follow.”
